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Hot Babes Beginner's Guide to: BDSM

Hot Babes Beginner's Guide to: BDSM

Do you desire to have a powerful, sexy woman control you in the bedroom? With the recent release of Fifty Shades Darker in cinemas, the mysterious world of BDSM is once again on the minds of many. But, domination should not be considered the taboo topic many regard it as. Far from it – my numerous experiences with BDSM have taught me there is nothing weird about it; it’s just fucking hot!

From spankings and light bondage to whips and ropes, the world of BDSM is devilishly diverse. It’s not for everyone, but for those willing to explore their sexuality and take their time with an experienced Mistress (such as myself and other Hot Babes in Essex), it could lead to the most erotic encounters of your life. Once you’ve found your fetish and unleashed your wildest desires, domination may lead you to new levels of sexual ecstasy.

“But where do I begin?” you might be asking yourself. Lucky for you, Sexy Sasha is here to give you a crash course. Pay attention! Your generous Mistress is ready to indulge you with my tantalising tips for starting BDSM. It may feel strange at first, but by the end you will be wanting to delve into domination more than ever before.

1) Take your time

Don’t rush into domination. A big mistake beginners make is to try everything at once, putting them off immediately. I like to start first-timers off slowly, maybe with some sexy spanking or blindfolding them while I take control. Taking things step-by-step means you’ll be more likely to enjoy the thrills of BDSM – save the whips and chains until later!

Plus, do some research to explore what aspects of BDSM really turn you on. You may be attracted to tie-and-tease, but totally turned off by spankings – everyone’s different. By learning from the experiences of others and sharing your first time with an adventurous teacher, you’ll give yourself the dream start to domination.

2) Be open and honest

Our Hot Babes will only take your BDSM experience as far as you want. For those with no limits, you can be guaranteed a devilishly raunchy encounter – the likes of which only our Essex escorts can provide. But, if there are certain areas you want to avoid, let us know. Above all else our girls want to give you a good time, providing your ideal mix of pain and pleasure. So, be crystal clear and honest about what you enjoy, whether it’s a bare arse spanking or breaking out the blindfolds and whips!

3) Find your role

Are you a top or a bottom? At Hot Babes, BDSM goes both ways. We have dangerously sexy dominatrixes that love to run the rule over sissies from Southend to Stansted. However, we also have submissive girls that love to bend to your whims (within reason of course). That is why you should take the time to figure out which role makes you hardest – will you take the lead or give in to our strong, sexy dommes? When you’ve made your choice, your path to unmatched pleasure becomes much clearer.

4) Decide your safe word

Some may think the safe word is an urban myth, but in the world of BDSM it isn’t only real but essential. Be sure to let your escort know a clear, definite safety word that lets them know to stop. Like we’ve already said, our stunning ladies will push your pain threshold for the maximum pleasure, but will never go further than you can take. After all, this is your fantasy, and Hot Babes ensure the most enjoyable encounter possible. So, what’s the word on your lips?

5) Never say never…

As the old saying goes, you should try anything once. BDSM involves an incredibly hot range of activities to bring you to your boiling point. Bondage, spanking, clamps, whips, chains, paddles, blindfolds, gags – and this is just scratching the surface. If you have a particular fantasy you’ve wanted to fulfil, whether it’s dungeon roleplays, tie and tease, slave sessions and more, Hot Babes will give you room to explore the deepest desires of your mind.

6) There’s nothing wrong with BDSM!

BDSM is not a sign of mental damage – it’s just how you like to get off! The unhelpful stereotype that a domination fetish is a sign of abuse or violence couldn’t be further from the truth – if it makes you horny, embrace it! Plus, don’t worry about feeling emasculated by letting our Hot Babes take control – many others would give anything to be ruled by one of our gorgeous Essex escorts. So, don’t be proud – if you want nothing more than a powerful, sexy lady to work you over, give it a go!

Myself and other gorgeous BDSM escorts are experts at unleashing your wildest fetishes for the ultimate sexual encounter, and specialise in stimulating domination. If you would like a session with one or more of our kinky dominatrixes, call Hot Babes now on 0845 154 6026. If you want the perfect mix of pleasure and pain, you’ll do whatever we say.

Bye for now boys. 

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